Urooj's Penchants

 It does not matter what type of content social media influencers are making, it's about what type of content we hype about . The content we want to see will be made and will trend. We, as a society are responsible for making the trends. We are the people who follow and admire specific content , but at the end we criticize and blame influencers for the content.

 Transgenders are also human beings. They are a part of our society. Just like us , they are also created by Allah. We have no right to abuse someone. Being human, we should respect the humanity.    It is so heartbreaking to see that instead of thanking Allah ,for a complete physical fitness , we are busy making fun of others.    Remember that not all things are in our hands. We are nothing infront of Allah's will. We must learn to accept and respect humanity ; no matter what the background he/she have .Afterall we are all humans and we must not forget that. .

 Never give lame excuses like "Amma Abba nahi manain Gy" after 4 to 5 years of commitment. Because if you think that you are restricted in such a way that you cannot disobey your parents , then why even commit to someone , who cannot be accepted by your parents. Why are you destroying someone's life if you don't have courage to speak for yourself?    Why are you playing with someone's emotions. If you do not have enough strength to fulfill your promises, why are you giving expectations to that person.    You have no idea how it can break someone ; mentally, emotionally and spiritually.    Therefore , please do not ruin someone's life if you are  aware of your family's expectations from you

 It does not matter what type of content social media influencers are making, it's about what type of content we hype about . The content we want to see will be made and will trend. We, as a society are responsible for making the trends. We are the people who follow and admire specific content , but at the end we criticize and blame influencers for the content.

Always respect yourself. Self-respect should always be your top priority. If you  respect yourself, people will respect you. Don’t let anyone bring you down or define your worth. It’s your own identity and your own journey. People may judge , but it’s important to remember that their opinions don’t define who you are. Those people who judge you, are they perfect themselves? Nope! So don’t worry about what they say. Instead, focus on seeeking forgiveness from Allah and learning from your mistakes. Your self respect is valuable and should be protected. Keep your head up high.